Writing today after a very very long time makes me feel weird. It's as if i had distanced myself from a true friend and listener. Just feels like I just ditched you and went away to something I desired. But today i really felt the urge to write about relationships. I really tried stopping myself from writing this but i just can't. I have missed this friend since a very very long time and i should have known.
Cities change. New people enter everyone's lives. But does that mean old priorities change? I think no. In the world of technology all we have become is a status update, a testimony, a like, a comment, a drink at the bar and hooking up with random strangers after getting battered and sharing our griefs out to them, smoking up a joint and maybe just arguing with our parents all the while. We have become slaves of technology without any emotions. We have come to a day where it is difficult for us to understand if a person is feeling constipated or is he annoyed. The understanding is completely missing. There is no emotion in the relationships, just motion. The kids are a liability and responsibility of the parents, the old parents are a formality and intrusion of privacy to their not so young married kids and the list just continues.
Cities change. New people enter everyone's lives. But does that mean old priorities change? I think no. In the world of technology all we have become is a status update, a testimony, a like, a comment, a drink at the bar and hooking up with random strangers after getting battered and sharing our griefs out to them, smoking up a joint and maybe just arguing with our parents all the while. We have become slaves of technology without any emotions. We have come to a day where it is difficult for us to understand if a person is feeling constipated or is he annoyed. The understanding is completely missing. There is no emotion in the relationships, just motion. The kids are a liability and responsibility of the parents, the old parents are a formality and intrusion of privacy to their not so young married kids and the list just continues.
No call or text for a couple of hours and they think the love has diminished. Now I value old age relationships even more as they did not have the modern day communication systems and they used to wait for ages for their lovr letters to arrive. We need to realise that true love and relationships do not fade away with distance or time. They are murdered. And we all know how they are murdered. Enough of Bollywood movies have been telecasting them since ages.
We need to move out of motions. Take control. Understand. Give them adequate space and believe they will come as yours. Also in the mean while be independent as well. Adds to the growth instead of the fighting and dragging down.
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