Marriage

I was going through this series of questions on a website when I found a question stating 'What should you ask a guy or girl when you meet him for the 1st time for the proposal of an arranged marriage?'
The most common replies I read were ask him about his hobbies etc. What are you going to do about hobbies? You barely have time for yourself that you will go for hobbies together? Bleh. How would you know about the person by asking about his hobbies??.
  Simply asking him 2 simple questions.

1st. Describe your struggles in life.
Prompt reply would be a full show off answer saying I fought through this I did that I built this facing this blah blah blah.. without any conviction or pain or worth of the struggle he has put in. Move out as soon as possible. He has not felt any pain or struggled in life.

2nd. Define  happiness in life according to you.
Money, property, party, fun if are the replies move out.

Simple questions define the entire life history of a person.
An honest hard working person will always value his struggle and have pain in his eyes and voice when he speaks about his struggles. He will stutter, be shocked at the question, but with complete humility answer the question.

For him happiness will be simple. Family and their happiness. Spouse, kids, parents, a satisfactory job with growth, or business aspirations, but will always have a sparkle in his eyes when he speaks of happiness.

Any person can be gauged by simple face gestures and eyes and his philosophy and principles in life.
Even when philosophies and principles are food how he speaks of them is of more importance which is the simplest way a person in this world senses and feels about people.

In the end even after all this, a simple spark is enough to start the fire of true love even if it's through arranged marriage.
Do not keep any expectations in your mind when you meet someone. Just look into their eyes and the conviction with which they speak both at the same time.

Maybe you keep looking for your superman but clark Kent would have already passed you 100 times or would be standing in front of you. Stay happy and stay committed for life.