Winning

Every living being on earth has a different perspective about winning. Some want to win for mankind, some want to win for pride, some want to win for ego, but majorly everyone wants to win for survival. As they say in a blockbuster movie " beta yahan toh race lagi hai, 1st nahi aaoge toh log tumhe kuchal kar aagey chale jayenge"

Winning or losing is just a matter of perspective. A matter of choice. A simple matter of goals. Winning for me is simple. Happiness and satisfaction of my family along with me is my victory.

A smile on my mother's face. Pride and satisfaction on my sister's face, daddy's dreams coming true but most of all simple dreams of my life fulfilled by my hardwork.

Winning for includes the happiness of society and mankind as a whole. Too big am expectation I suppose? But the solution is simple.

Spread smiles without expectations. By spreading smiles I do not mean splurge money. Don't do things for people but don't ruin things for people. Do not ridicule people. Do not look down upon them.

Winning in a competition is not winning. Never was, never will be. Kill unhealthy competition because competition is for development and not for survival or killing or defeating people. Competition should be a platform for development and growth of new things, innovations and not a platform for unfair mal practice. Victory is not in pulling down someone. We will win when we develop and grow with everyone around us. Taking them forward with us or we moving forward with them rather than pulling everyone back.

Compete and win against yourself. Be better than what you were yesterday. Compete against your mistakes and fight them. When you feel the inner satisfaction of defeating yourself. That is the time when you will win. We will win. Society will win. Mankind will win.

Move forward taking everyone with you and if you can't support people who can take everyone forward.