Relationships.

STATUTORY WARNING: This post is not on the relationships you are thinking about.

    This post is completely based upon the different relationships and relations we build throughout our life. The base question for this post has been asked by every person in his life "Why do People leave us and Go?"

    We build relationships all along our life. At birth we have parents. The strongest, purest and best relation of our life. Everything we do is unconditional. We love, we fight-for each other and sometimes against each other,we support, we share, we hide but in the end we have an attachment we have with nobody else. But suddenly one day when your relationship with your father is at its peak, or when your mother is really proud of your achievements, or when both of them are really angry at you because you are married against their choice you suddenly lose them. They are no more there. You keep searching for them in times of your needs. Then tear your hair apart for a few days but then just move on to a new solution in life. You acknowledge them and their works after their they are gone. 

    Why cannot you acknowledge them when they are alive and give them a little smile and happiness?

    We grow up. Make friends. Some good, some bad and some the best. We talk we share we have fun. We spend the most happy and most cherished moments of our lives with them. Share everything-from underwears to chocolates to secrets to crushes oooppsss not underwears :p. I hope you get what im trying to say. But we soon start taking them for granted. We expect them to be there and do things for us without us doing anything for them. We do not acknowledge them. We make new friends, do the same things with the new  ones forgetting that there are some impeccable old diamonds which are standing for you as always which you have ignored.
       Why cant we acknowledge them, and be selfless and help genuinely and keep the true essence of friendship attached?

     We grow up more. Make love relations. They pamper us with love, affection and care and anything else that they can. We take up all the care and be happy, but the day they expect the same love affection care and everything else we think they have become selfish and breakup with them.
       Why cant we just reciprocate true love and not show ego?

In our entire life people just leave us and go. They use us break us and just leave us with scars. But then you have a beautiful gem of a son or friend or partner which is always there in your life. Because of all the scars we just leave all the doors tightly shut for them without knowing that they are there for us always. We keep searching searching searching but in the end just forget to look behind the close doors. There is desperation to build new doors but just forget to unlock the old scars.
    Major people will leave but rare people stay. Find them and do everything you can for them because they too will always be there for you.

This is dedicated to all the people who have been my strength throughout my life where people just left.
Thanks MOM, Vibha, Anushree, Pulkit, Lavanya and the most precious and special Anant.
Happy Birthday Pops. Hope you stay with me always. Thanks a ton for always being there in everything.
Happiness, success, failures, crimes, (no sadness because you have the knack of converting them to light hearted situations)

Keep appreciating, loving, caring, and maintain the true essence of friendship.