Trust

Your entire life boils down to trust. Whom can you trust? Whom can yo not? These are the two questions i have always heard people discuss about.

My question here is How many people trust you?
If you will try to search for this answer you will be left searching and depressed. you will start searching for people. You will start thinking and doubting whether somebody really trusts you or no?

Trust is too big a word, too big an emotion to be handled by humans. Since humans are not perfect nobody can fulfill all the expectations of all the people close to them. Today we expect too many things out of too many people. He should do this for me, he should not do that with me, he should tell me everything, he never shares anything with me. God give me a break. Everybody is tired of answering these questions. But why do these questions arise?

Maybe they arise because you have made mistakes. Maybe they arise because the others have made a mistake and they don't want you to make the same ones. You do 1000 good things you are good. You make 1 mistake and people look at you with suspicion. Let me get this straight-this will have to change. For the 1000 good things he has done the person deserves a chance to justify and identify his mistake. Even we need to understand why the mistake happened. Help him rectify them.Try and understand why he did it. But instead of that all that he gets is a cold angry shoulder.

He has to listen to 1000 different things for the next 1000 days about breaking trust. You did this so i cant trust you. You are surely not here. You are doing something else. These are just a few statements you would have heard from people who SEEM to have lost trust in you.

Trust actually is a very simple thing. Its us who have complicated it to the very core. We trust GOD even when we have not seen him. Is it because we expect something out of him and he always does it? The second he does not grant a wish we hear people saying i have lost trust in GOD. This is what human trust has become. Expectations and not Trust is what has got to us.
Trust as simple as walking with the person without asking where is he taking you. Trust is as simple as not expecting him to do anything for you but believing he will do it and not getting hurt just in case he does not do it.

I cannot trust somebody else because someone else has done this to me. This is the most common thing i have heard. For such scenarios the simplest solution is to leave your ego aside and simply have faith. Or else don't expect anything out of anybody and never trust(which is the most impossible solution). Simply do not expect and trust. If he does it be happy, if not you shouldn't be sad because you never expected anything out of him.

Expectations and too many cases of cheating around us in our surroundings have complicated our lives and filled up our minds with too much of doubt for everyone. Sometimes we trust the person completely and we are right, but too many questions and scenarios around us have made us doubt too many things and we end up ruining our relations.

Life is too simple. Let us not complicate it. I hate the quote people say that trust once broken cannot be got back.

Love Trust are two things which never break if they are true no matter how bad your mistake is. They only strengthen with time and situations. Its all in your head. If you truly loved or trusted somebody love and trust him so much that he thinks twice before breaking your trust ever again.

Sense in simplicity and be true to yourself and everybody.