This post is purely my views and understanding of a woman. I do not mean to offend or hurt anybody. A few of my friends asked me about how do you understand women. They kept saying it is too complicated, they are too unpredictable etc. The one question they kept asking me is how do you understand women?
A mother, A wife, A daughter, A sister, A grandmother are a few roles we know about a woman. She is a friend, God mother, agony aunt, leader, cook, soul mate, storehouse of energy too are a few roles a woman performs but are just taken for granted by the world.
Understanding a woman is complicated but simple. It all depends on her mood, her thought process, her expectations, her attitude, her fighting nature are just a few permutations and combinations which have to be put straight. Simply look into her eyes and see what feeling it has. Anger and pain can be simply guaged. Love, sacrifice and ego are 3 things which are very difficult to understand from her eyes.
Anger can simply be sensed when she is avoiding or silent but not hyper. When she is hyper at you she is hurt. A woman will always be hyper at you if she is hurt. She will not dump you or leave you, but will try to improve you with maturity and patience(Very rarely shown but it is evident). Eyes speak it all.
She loves unconditionally only expecting love and care in return. By love and care i only mean love and care and not pampering with gifts and excess stuff. She longs for memories and not materialistic things. If you really want to guage a woman give her memories. Sweet memories. If she values those memories she truly loves you and will do anything for you. If she does'nt then she is nothing but a gold digger. A woman will always ask you for gifts but give her memories as gifts and not materialistic things. She will crib for a while but she will always cherish those memories. If she does not then you know what she is. Love her. Protect her. Care for her. Hurt her only if you have the capabilities to wipe her tears and overcome and stitch the scars she has.
A woman will never show you her pain directly. She will get angry, annoying, possessive, irritating, scolding when she is hurt or is fighting for something. She will portray all her emotions but will never give up or take any help from anybody. She will sacrifice her, time, her strength to protect everything she loves. With sacrifice comes ego. These can only be sensed when she ignores your advice or tries to get your attention to what she has done. She will try to get your attention towards it only once or twice. If you dont she will not display her anger but will make you realise that you are missing something. She will not keep demanding or pushing showing what she had done for you. In her ego she will expect you to be her protector. Her saviour. But actually she wants to be your chariot your saviour. She knows and has the strength to hold you, protect you and lift you up.
A woman is a house of feelings. And all her feelings are portrayed through her eyes. The person who can read her eyes can easily understand what is on her mind. But be careful. She will never accept if you tell her that. She will indirectly do what you say, or smile incessantly, or just be MILDLY possessive of you but never accept. She is always dependent on you even after having the strength much better than you. I guess that is how nature planned it.
Praise her. Compliment her genuinely. Do tell her about her mistakes. She will accept them. Motivation always brings a woman up. Always show her her strengths. And motivationally her mistakes. Bring her up always.
Look into her eyes and sweep her away with memories full of love and care. Pamper her with trust and understanding and not materialistic things.
I really do not wish to hurt anybody through this post. Sorry if i did. Just my way of understanding Woman i have been with.
A mother, A wife, A daughter, A sister, A grandmother are a few roles we know about a woman. She is a friend, God mother, agony aunt, leader, cook, soul mate, storehouse of energy too are a few roles a woman performs but are just taken for granted by the world.
Understanding a woman is complicated but simple. It all depends on her mood, her thought process, her expectations, her attitude, her fighting nature are just a few permutations and combinations which have to be put straight. Simply look into her eyes and see what feeling it has. Anger and pain can be simply guaged. Love, sacrifice and ego are 3 things which are very difficult to understand from her eyes.
Anger can simply be sensed when she is avoiding or silent but not hyper. When she is hyper at you she is hurt. A woman will always be hyper at you if she is hurt. She will not dump you or leave you, but will try to improve you with maturity and patience(Very rarely shown but it is evident). Eyes speak it all.
She loves unconditionally only expecting love and care in return. By love and care i only mean love and care and not pampering with gifts and excess stuff. She longs for memories and not materialistic things. If you really want to guage a woman give her memories. Sweet memories. If she values those memories she truly loves you and will do anything for you. If she does'nt then she is nothing but a gold digger. A woman will always ask you for gifts but give her memories as gifts and not materialistic things. She will crib for a while but she will always cherish those memories. If she does not then you know what she is. Love her. Protect her. Care for her. Hurt her only if you have the capabilities to wipe her tears and overcome and stitch the scars she has.
A woman will never show you her pain directly. She will get angry, annoying, possessive, irritating, scolding when she is hurt or is fighting for something. She will portray all her emotions but will never give up or take any help from anybody. She will sacrifice her, time, her strength to protect everything she loves. With sacrifice comes ego. These can only be sensed when she ignores your advice or tries to get your attention to what she has done. She will try to get your attention towards it only once or twice. If you dont she will not display her anger but will make you realise that you are missing something. She will not keep demanding or pushing showing what she had done for you. In her ego she will expect you to be her protector. Her saviour. But actually she wants to be your chariot your saviour. She knows and has the strength to hold you, protect you and lift you up.
A woman is a house of feelings. And all her feelings are portrayed through her eyes. The person who can read her eyes can easily understand what is on her mind. But be careful. She will never accept if you tell her that. She will indirectly do what you say, or smile incessantly, or just be MILDLY possessive of you but never accept. She is always dependent on you even after having the strength much better than you. I guess that is how nature planned it.
Praise her. Compliment her genuinely. Do tell her about her mistakes. She will accept them. Motivation always brings a woman up. Always show her her strengths. And motivationally her mistakes. Bring her up always.
Look into her eyes and sweep her away with memories full of love and care. Pamper her with trust and understanding and not materialistic things.
I really do not wish to hurt anybody through this post. Sorry if i did. Just my way of understanding Woman i have been with.
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